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Header image I'm the kind of person who is attracted to cheerful, playful, and humorous energy (intelligence with a dash of wit is a cherry on top). Often, when I don't find it, it turns me off. I feel odd, experiencing a mix of emotions—happy, sad, thoughtful, and scared all at once. Loud noises, shouting, and taunting make me uncomfortable. I get scared so easily now that it's hard to open up to anyone. I just want to keep suffocating and wish I could disappear. But something inside keeps asking for one more push to move on. And here I am, sitting and thinking the same thing over and over. I get scared. I just want to suffocate and disappear, but I can't help it. I have a life to live, even though I don't want to, but I have to. Maybe I'll save that for the end. One day, when you look back, you may realize that maybe it wasn't a love story, but a true story. Does it feel like something you’ve always wanted to share with the world ...

  Introduction This poem is a raw and powerful reflection on society's misconceptions about what it means to be a "real man." It came to me during a moment of deep contemplation, a time when I found myself frustrated with the idea of masculinity that many blindly follow. Through these words, I wanted to express the hypocrisy and double standards that often define how we perceive strength, respect, and empathy. The verses are meant to shine a light on the arrogance and ignorance of those who believe they can dominate or disrespect others in the name of power. It holds up a mirror to false pride and toxic behavior, challenging the idea that respect can be earned through aggression and intimidation. This poem aims to question these misguided notions, calling for a deeper understanding of what truly makes someone "strong" or "manly." At its core, this poem is deeply personal, serving as a mirror for my own self-reflection. It was born from my need to conf...

  Header Image Introduction This poem holds a special place in my heart. A few months ago, while I was sitting alone in my room, a few words came to me as I was speaking with someone dear to me. I simply arranged those words, and this poem emerged. At the time, I didn't quite understand why it came to me, especially since everything seemed to be going so well. But now, I think I know the answer. This poem has become a way of life for me, a breath of fresh air that keeps me going. It has been my constant companion through the ups and downs, and I believe it always will be. Setting the Stage Picture yourself in a quiet space, where every corner of the room echoes with memories and whispers of unspoken words. It’s late at night, and the world outside is hushed, while inside, your thoughts are alive, weaving stories and emotions that only you understand. This is the moment when your mind wanders back to someone special—a person who unknowingly leaves traces in every thought, every brea...

  Header Image Introduction Have you ever found yourself stuck, knowing what to do but still unable to act on it? Maybe you’ve read every book, listened to countless podcasts, and analyzed all the data, but when it comes time to put knowledge into practice, something seems to be missing. You might be experiencing what Simon Roberts explores in his book, The Power of Not Thinking : the concept that the answers you’re seeking might not be in your head but in your body. Roberts challenges the long-standing belief that intelligence and decision-making come solely from the mind. Instead, he introduces us to the idea of embodied knowledge —a form of intelligence that lives in the whole body, not just the brain. Let’s dive into this idea and see how our senses, physical skills, and intuition play a key role in our ability to understand and navigate the world. The Myth of the Mind Alone For centuries, Western culture has championed the idea that our minds are separate from our bodies. The ...

Header Image Introduction This poem is a deeply emotional exploration of loneliness, vulnerability, and the solace we sometimes find in the simplest things, like speaking to walls. It captures the moments when words fall short with people, and we turn to inanimate objects to pour out our pain, hopes, and disappointments. The poem invites us into a world where silence speaks louder than words, where the walls become our silent companions in times of despair. It's a reflection on those times when life feels overwhelming—when people let us down, when dreams shatter, and when the world seems to turn its back. The walls, in their quiet and steady presence, listen without judgment, offering a sense of comfort in our darkest hours. Through these verses, you will journey through the depths of solitude, heartbreak, and the inner battles we face when we have no one else to turn to. As you read, let yourself be drawn into the emotion of s...

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Header Image for blog   (toc) #title=(Table of Content)  T(caps) oday, I want to take you on a journey to explore how banking and UPI (Unified Payments Interface) apps might be subtly influencing us to spend more through the principles of behavioural economics. But before we dive into that, let me share the story that inspired this post. Recently, I was working on a problem statement to prepare a case study for a shared wallet concept for PhonePe. The task seemed simple enough: design an app feature where users can add their family members or friends to a shared wallet. Everyone in that wallet could then pay through it, view, and manage their expenses effectively—all while reducing the hassle of manual calculations and stress. As someone living in a remote area, I understand how stressful it can be to manage money efficiently, especially when dealing with everyday expenses. I often use apps like money managers, Split wise, or even WhatsApp groups to record my bills, hoping tha...

Header Image Introduction This poem is a heartfelt plea, a raw expression of the soul yearning for someone to fill the spaces left by time, joy, and sorrow. It’s a deeply personal journey where love, hope, and vulnerability meet. The question is simple yet profound: Will you stay, even with the weight my heart carries? In our quiet moments, when we pause and reflect on love and loss, we realize our hearts hold untold stories—some spaces empty, waiting to be filled, others scarred by past heartaches. This poem invites you into that emotional space, a delicate offering of the heart to someone who may, or may not, choose to stay. As you read, feel the uncertainty and fragile hope behind the words: "Mera Dil Khali Sa Hai... Kya Mere Dil Mein Rahogi?" It’s not just a question for a lover but a reflection on life itself, on the courage it takes to open our hearts while guarding them from the inevitable tides of emotion. So tonight, I invite you t...

Header Image Introduction I(caps) n the whirlwind of life, we often find ourselves vulnerable, opening our hearts to the world and sharing our deepest thoughts and emotions. But not every heart we confide in is gentle. Some wounds are left by those we least expect. This poem is a heartfelt reminder to guard our inner selves and keep our most personal stories close. It speaks of the delicate balance between trust and caution, urging us to be mindful of what we reveal to the world. As you read through these lines, take a moment to reflect on the sanctity of your own secrets and the importance of safeguarding them. Setting up the stage Picture yourself sitting by the window on a quiet evening, watching the world go by, yet feeling distant from it. A soft breeze rustles the curtains, and in the stillness of that moment, thoughts of trust, love, and betrayal fill your mind. The world outside seems indifferent to the heartaches you've faced, and perhaps, this poem echoes the feelings you...

Header Image Introduction: Rethinking Consciousness I(caps) n  Consciousness Explained , philosopher  Daniel C. Dennett  encourages us to rethink what we understand about consciousness—the core of being human. For centuries, thinkers have puzzled over how our minds work. Dennett challenges traditional ideas, suggesting that consciousness might be more of an illusion than we realize. This perspective could change how we see ourselves and our place in the world. Breaking Down the Myth of the Inner Observer For a long time, many believed in the "Cartesian theatre," a concept that imagines a little person inside our heads watching our lives unfold like a movie. René Descartes suggested that the mind and body are separate, with a specific part of the brain controlling consciousness. However, as we’ve learned more about the brain, we find that different experiences—like sight, sound, and emotion—are processed in various areas, not in one central spot. Dennett argues against th...

Header Image of the blog Introduction I(caps) n this poem, I've explored the deep-seated frustrations and hopes that many of us carry. The lines "Mujhe barbad tere ishq se jayda, mere khamoshi ne kiya hai" (I have been ruined more by my silence than by your love) and "Thak gye rooh, ab to awaz uathai jaye" (My soul is tired, now it's time to raise my voice) reflect a yearning for change and a desire to be heard. The poem also addresses societal issues like religious intolerance and political corruption, emphasizing the importance of speaking out against injustice. Ultimately, it serves as a reminder that empathy and compassion are crucial for building a more just and equitable world. Setting up the stage At some point in life, we've all faced sorrow and frustration due to circumstances beyond our control. These experiences can deeply affect us, and it's often difficult to move past them. In this poem, I've used metaphors to express the emotions ...